Theme

(Source: princesconsuela, via kateosaur)

"

You keep looking for answers to justify why it didn’t work out and why it probably never will.

You ask your friends and maybe a stranger, but most importantly, you ask yourself. You question why you weren’t good enough and what made him want her instead.

You cry and you sigh and you go over it in your head a hundred times. You fight with yourself. You hate yourself.

But at some point, you have to stop. You have stop wondering and waiting and asking, and just accept that what happened, happened. He did what he did because he chose to do it, and that’s the only answer you need.

And if you can’t accept it, learn from it. Become stronger and wiser and know that although you didn’t get what you wanted with him, you’re going to get something so much greater from someone else someday.

"

(Source: , via rosy-mindedfuzzz)

"It’s hard not to feel humorless, as a woman and a feminist, to recognize misogyny in so many forms, some great and some small, and know you’re not imagining things. It’s hard to be told to lighten up because if you lighten up any more, you’re going to float the fuck away. The problem is not that one of these things is happening; it’s that they are all happening, concurrently and constantly.

These are just songs. They are just jokes. It’s just a hug. They’re just breasts. Smile, you’re beautiful. Can’t a man pay you a compliment? In truth, this is all a symptom of a much more virulent cultural sickness - one where women exist to satisfy the whims of men, one where a woman’s worth is consistently diminished or entirely ignored."
— Roxane Gay, from “Blurred Lines, Indeed,” Bad Feminist, 2014 (via myshoesuntied)

theambears:

Siberian Lynx - Utah’s Hogle Zoo [x]

(via jackthevulture)

"i said to the sun, tell me about the big bang. the sun said, it hurts to become."
— andrea gibson, i sing the body electric, especially when my power’s out   (via weaverofstars)

(Source: ale-thea, via doctorbee)

(Source: twilightarbor, via lorebreaker)

guldentusks:

in the wee hours i made a couple passes at yesterday’s sketch_dailies- kelpie. they quickly devolved into varying ominous river serpenthorses…

guldentusks:

in the wee hours i made a couple passes at yesterday’s sketch_dailies- kelpie. they quickly devolved into varying ominous river serpenthorses…

(via jackthevulture)

blackpaint20:

"Shelter (Sudden Awakening)", charcoal and chalk on paper, 66x32cm, 2011 by Denis Forkas Kostromitin

blackpaint20:

"Shelter (Sudden Awakening)", charcoal and chalk on paper, 66x32cm, 2011 by Denis Forkas Kostromitin

(via a-face-on-the-water)

Anonymous: As a lesbian, I do not care at all about bisexual girls feeling left out or judged in the LGBTQ community. I know that's horrible, especially since my girlfriend is bi, but I find it very revolting when I think about making love with someone that loves taking dick. I fell for my girlfriend without knowing she likes guys and girls. I don't purposefully date bisexual girls and I don't think it's wrong to say that.

camdrogynous:

amazingatheist:

sc0uttt:

fatpinkmyrishswamp:

sc0uttt:

the-unfeminine-aesthetic:

.

I really hope your girlfriend realizes she’s dating a pathetic waste of a human being and finds someone infinitely better. 

A lot of lesbians are turned off by the idea of their gf having sex with men. Why is that such a bad thing? Why is it so wrong to only like women who like other women? I think the anon who asked this should be honest with her gf and break up with her though if it’s that much of a turn off. 

At first I wasn’t going to reply to comments like these but now that I’ve had a couple of beers the idea of repeatedly hitting my head against a brick wall seems more enjoyable so here we go.

I have a problem with lesbians who claim that they have a “preference” towards dating other lesbians over bisexuals. I understand having a preference, I personally have a preference for girls who are my height or taller than me.  However, does this preference make me view my own voice, safety, and representation in my community as superior and of more importance than those I do not have a preference for? Nope. That’s why this anon (and unfortunately other like minded individuals)  don’t have a “preference” they are biphobic and overall prejudicial assholes.

If you’re not comfortable dating bisexual people because you feel they will ultimately leave you for the opposite sex or (insert other stereotypical view of bisexuals) you don’t have a preference, you are biphobic, and have some huge insecurities that you should probably deal with before you enter a relationship.

If you’re a lesbian and do not feel comfortable dating a woman who is also attracted to individuals with dicks because you find it “icky” or “gross”, it must blow your mind when you find out your partner likes watermelon and you don’t. How do you even move forward from there? Is the relationship just doomed? And yes it is the same thing. Those individuals are judging someone based on something they cannot control.

Prejudice and phobia inside the queer community is something I will never understand and is absolutely infuriating. 

Prejudice and phobia in any community makes no sense.

Its also a mindset that is extremely transphobic and invalidating of trans women that are lesbians. Ugh.

babyrad:

There’s this shitty thing that happens when you learn about the reality of racism, sexism and misogyny. You start to hear it from the mouths of your parents, grandparents, friends and siblings and you can’t ignore it anymore but you’ll see how many of them will ignore you when you speak out about it.

(via doctorbee)

pory:

my rosie keeps asking to buy my ores so i guess she really likes gems (*~▽~)

pory:

my rosie keeps asking to buy my ores so i guess she really likes gems (*~▽~)

(via floororanges)

(Source: thenimbus, via megablaziken)